Are you in a ‘Grief Cage’? Take the first two steps to free yourself…

What’s wrong with me?

Why am I still in the ‘Grief Cage’?

For their sake, I knew I had to find a way to heal.

“Please Universe, I can’t hold this burden any longer. I can’t find Christian — I’ve tried everything I can. I have only one choice now, and that’s to hand over finding my brother to you. I know you know where he is. And I’m going to leave it up to you to bring him to me. How that happens, I leave it up to you. I can no longer search for him. I surrender.

Please, also, help me to heal because I can’t go on like this. I want to live again. I want to feel joy again. I want to enjoy my family, my friends. I want to regain my purpose in life.

I leave it all in your capable hands.”

Decide to fly free: The choice is yours.

Surrender: write a prayer for help and speak it out loud.



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